new tattoo

I need some advice....so like...I have an anchor tattoo on my right forearm with a banner across that says "Daddy" and now on saturday I'm getting another on my left forearm for my mom...but I dont know if I should go for the fairy that my mom choose...or the sparrow i want...=/

I kinda feel bad not going for the fairy but it has sooooo much detail and its gonna hurt like a motha...so idk what to do...what do you guys think?